He made no attempt to wipe away his tears as I finished explaining one aspect of ancestral eye mapping: the timing of each parent’s experience of the pregnancy with their child. “Gestation” (From 5:00-5:30 in the left eye for the genetic mother and from 7:00-7:30 for the genetic father).
I see a marking quite often when a baby is conceived just prior to active duty in military families; or other couples who had a fear (or concern) about the timing of the conception. Like they woke up thinking, Oh no! What if I’m pregnant? or What if she’s pregnant?
Suddenly, that thought of I hope we’re not pregnant becomes the baby’s deepest cellular belief of “I hope we’re not pregnant with you” and a feeling of not being wanted. Later in life, when the parent tells their child, I love you, the child pulls back, saying No you don’t! or You don’t love me! or You didn’t want me!
If a parent could just say, “Wow – We had just lost a baby and the dr. had told us not to have sex for four weeks but a couple of weeks later, and a bottle of wine, we made you – I remember thinking, oh nuts – if we’re pregnant the dr. will know we didn’t listen.”
The same is true for the Mom’s story – and they are always different. Each parent has their own unique experience of the pregnancy, “I was so scared when I found out I was pregnant with you. I even thought of having an abortion; but the first time I felt you move and kick? Well, I never knew a greater love, and it’s been that way ever since.”
It’s difficult to imagine a parent telling their child (or teen, or even adult) that they considered having an abortion … and that’s where the problem starts. These very intuitive children can tell when information is missing, like “we didn’t want to be pregnant. It was too soon. We weren’t married. We were going to wait until after college” …In one session, the parents had smoked marijuana that night, and the mom woke up thinking, “Oh my God! What if I’m pregnant and the baby will be addicted to Marijuana?” She had never told the father, or the child this funny story that left the client with an irrational feeling of, “There’s something wrong with me.”
When information is missing, the child grows up feeling misplaced – like they weren’t wanted or their parents didn’t really love them, or there was something wrong with them, even if nothing could be further from the truth.
The retired admiral’s voice cracked a bit as he said, “Amy, you have to get this information out”. He stared blankly across the room, “We were in therapy for five years with our son… five years! and this conversation never came up.
The minute you said it, I knew this was our story. Our son could not hear “I love you”. Especially from me.
It’s true – I was furious when I found out my wife was pregnant – I had just become a Captain – she was supposed to be using birth control. Our son could not hear the words, “I love you,” no matter how many ways I said it or how often. The words just couldn’t reach him and I couldn’t imagine why he couldn’t “get it.” I never once thought back to how we didn’t want to be pregnant when we first found out. He just kept saying over and over, “you never wanted me.” He ended his life six years ago.”
The lump in my throat grew, “I’m so sorry, Sir.”
The challenge is, when that intuitive child feels that something is missing, it starts this weird level of distrust with their parents that is tough to conquer. They have this constant feeling of being lied to. It’s such a significant thing. Sometimes, with such disastrous consequences.
While I can’t explain how the mother’s and the father’s experience of their pregnancy shows up in the eyes, in countless ancestral eye mapping sessions, I confirm it over and over, a timeline from the pupil (conception) to the sclera – (the time of birth). Any major traumas, fears, or concerns imprint the timeline, such as an international pandemic happening, which makes them afraid to have a baby in a hospital.
When the client knows their family history, they can usually find an ancestor with the same story from two to four generations back.
When the signature in the iris starts from the time of conception, there has been some kind of fear or concern about the relationship between the two parents, or something about that night (be that a fight, a tornado, or forgetting to use a condom, or being sent on active duty, or smoking weed).
The tragic thing is, the situation almost never has anything to do with the infant. In this navy admiral’s case, he was headed out to sea. In another session, the mother got pregnant with an IUD in. In another, the father was nearly laid off from work at about six months into the pregnancy. He only told the mother five years later. She couldn’t believe her daughter would know that.
What’s consistent, is that both parent’s experience of the child’s pregnancy imprinted clearly on a timeline in the eyes, and that the full story had never been shared with the individual until they had an eye reading and asked their parent, “What happened when you were six months pregnant with me?” In most cases the parent had a surprisingly emotional reaction to the question, and were incredulous how their child knew to ask about the specific week of the marking in the iris.
In each case so far, the individual has come back, saying “That was so healing. I had no idea…”
For those conceptions happening now during COVid 19, please finish the story for your child…
